Thanks Melanie and all the other resources that have helped me along the way. Hun healing our children, is a whole other topic — one where until our children are really old enough to actively make their own choices, we may be codependently trying to force them to do the work on themslves, when we can actually help them so much more by doing the work on ourselves about them.
He had cost me my job. I know the truth and that has to mean enough for me. That yes its im delusional. That I have to get away. We find your resources so valuable. My teenage son is having to mobe away this school year because I need to rebuild every bit of my life. We are still struggling but hope time will heal.
We have 2 grandsons one we have never seen, the other we last saw 3 years ago. But I have to stop contact at all. Thank you for being so intelligent, insightful, spiritual, and compassionate. We were married though. Then he would say I do nothing and treat me horrible.
On top of cooking and cleaning and other things to take care of him.
The lack of remorse empathy caring just enormous. Others that I love so very dearly. That he will try use that to re enter my life one day. The cruel cold non human way he is to me and I was so good to him. Took good care of him and love him unconditionally but h kept give me rules to live.
You have changed my life, as I now know how to heal myself. He is a text book narssiscist! This man took 8k in loans in 18 months fr me 25k from me in 3years and has gone silent in a sense and refused to pay me a dime. He has turned everyone against us even our daughter now who believes everything he says.
All for him or nothing. We even moved to another city to escape. Sharing it w all. Grateful August 2, I have experienced and been hurt by this many times over the years, in my family of origin.
We are not allowed to send them gifts. Knowing I had no groceries. I hope he keeps repeating his lifelong pattern.
Work on me and then emerge a better me.Can it ever be kind to be cruel? Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind, and other times, being cruel is the only way of protecting yourself. 1k Views · View Upvoters.
promoted by The Great Courses Plus. Learn Philosophy from university Philosophy professors for free. Apr 26, · Why is life so cruel? Why is it that everything I do goes un-noticed? im sure this is what you are referring to.
i wish there was some way to stop this but i think the best thing to do is stay strong and if you need to talk to your friends about it. im sure they can help and it will help you to not keep these kinds of things Status: Resolved.
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